abinazir

name Ali Binazir, MD, MPhil, is an author, speaker, and clinical hypnotherapist. As a personal change consultant, his goal is to help people render consistently better decisions towards more fulfilled lives. His books, The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible and The Tao of Dating: The Thinking Man's Enlightened Guide to Success with Women are the dating bibles for smart, educated folks like yourself. Visit the Tao of Dating blog for more information to help you become the healthiest, happiest version of you using the tools of ancient wisdom and modern science.

The Ten Commandments of Modern Dating

09th November 2010
I had dinner with my mother last week, which reminded me of the Ten Commandments. That's because there's only one measly commandment telling you what to do: 'honor thy father and thy mother.' The remaining nine are a relentless barrage of 'thou shalt not... Read >

The Tao of Dating: 5 Principles to Overcome Any Challenge in Your Love Life

09th November 2010
I get many letters like this from readers (both male and female): "I met this guy/girl/alien, and he took me to dinner, and it was really romantic, but he did/didn't try to kiss me, then he called/didn't call back, then he asked/didn't ask me out again, ... Read >

The Quick Guide for Getting Guys: How Smart Women Can Understand Men

09th November 2010
Lately, women have been reporting on the proliferation of a peculiar creature in their neighborhoods. They say it's hairy, communicates in grunts if at all, is always trying to gain their favor, doesn't train very well, and tries to hump everything in sig... Read >

How to Toss Toxic Mates in 3 Simple Steps

09th November 2010
Last night, I was talking to these two lovely young ladies -- let's call them Ashley and Sarah -- at a networking event in Los Angeles. They seemed preoccupied about a message Ashley was composing on her Blackberry. They kept on going back and forth, w... Read >

How to Keep Him Around Forever: The five masculating gifts

09th November 2010
In a past post, I talked about a letter from our friend Beth. She was on the brink of separation, and wanted to know how to avoid emasculating behaviors around her husband. We talked about mothering, jealousy, criticism, competition and correcting. Today... Read >

Dating: Why dinner dates suck as a first date

09th November 2010
Earlier this week I was having a conversation with a friend about how dinner dates are probably one of the worst ways of getting to know someone. It's basic stuff, but well worth repeating, because, well, people seem to keep on having these dinner dates. ... Read >

Dating Advice for Women: The Deadbeat Boyfriend Test

09th November 2010
Recently I've been noticing a spate of breakups amongst my female friends. I was having dinner with my friend Katie on her birthday. She was coming off a 6-year relationship with her boyfriend Dustin. Katie's 30; he was 41. You could tell that the bre... Read >